What thing causes loss ?
1- Fortune
یایها الذین ءامنوا لا تلهکم امولکم ولا اولدکم عن ذکرالله ومن یفعل ذالک فاولئک هم الخاسرون surah al monafeghon
9. O ye who believe! let not your riches or your Children divert you from the remembrance of Allah. if any act Thus, the loss is their own.
Wife 2-
یا ایها الذین آمنوا ان من ازواجکم و اولادکم عدوا لکم فحذروهم وام تعفر و تغفروا Surah altagabon فان الله غفور رحیم.
14. O ye who believe! truly, among your wives and your Children are (some that are) enemies to yourselves: so beware of them! but if ye forgive and overlook, and cover up (Their faults), Verily Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.